Great Sex without Intercourse

 Great Sex without Intercourse

There are a lot of situations in which both partners would like to express their mutual love. For different reasons though, the intimate contact cannot take place: during last months of pregnancy, immediately after birth, after a surgical procedure, in between stages of an illness etc.

 All these situations plead in favor of the method presented below, because even in such cases you will be able to make love to your beloved in the absence of the physical act itself.
For many loving, strong couples, making love without sex plays a special part in day-to-day life, even if none of the previous situations exists. Acting like this, the couples bring into their lives the missing element and express their love in unusual, yet appealing manner, enriching their relationship.
Unfortunately most people when thinking about "making love" envisage one thing only - the intimate, genital contact. In case of a harmonious couple, when the two know and love each other, "making love" is not strictly limited to the physical act. On the contrary, "making love" becomes a common state of mind and spirit, state that they may share even for more than one day or two. Such a couple reaches the point in which they are able to communicate rapidly and so profoundly that they may even give birth to ecstatic passion by means of a glance.
Kissing, passionate embracing and caressing are very important for a complete erotic fusion. Loving and caring couples who act this way in their intimate lives use every single opportunity to express thus their affection and adoration.

Phone sex

This is an old favorite, and it is very useful if you and your lover have to be apart. Of course, since getting off with your sweetheart on the phone is a really fun and dirty way to play, you don’t have to actually be too far apart; separate rooms will suffice. Our aural senses are very sensitive to erotic sounds; as a result, panting, heavy breathing and moans trigger a heightened sexual response. Phone sex also allows a bit more freedom because you are alone and can therefore do as you please. Physically, the pressure is off since she is responsible for herself and you for yourself.

Mutual masturbation

This is one of the sexiest and most intimate things you can do with a lover, though the situation has to be right and you both have to be comfortable with each other. Allowing your partner to work your body over in a massage can often lead to some hand play. Whether you introduce toys to assist you in reaching orgasm or allow your partner to use his hands matters little; the end result can be an overwhelming orgasm. Be a giving partner and return the favor for him by bringing him to climax through masturbation as well.

Whether you take care of business while he watches or the two of you take turns masturbating one another, there is great pleasure to be had in watching one another reach sexual fulfillment

Sensual Touching

A touch from your partner you have feelings for can send chills up your back when you least expect it. Maybe it’s his hand on your back as he accompanies you into a room or maybe it’s him gently rubbing your neck and shoulders after a long day at work. Touch has a powerful connection with our minds. It’s our anticipation of his touch that can send us into another world.

A seductive massage is a form of outer course. As you work parts of your partner’s body (and he works yours), you can release tensions and stresses as well as work to heighten his level of excitement. Massage can be done with your hands but you can also use other parts of your body including your mouth.

Organically Speaking

The power of words can move anyone to their knees. If you can engage your partner in talking dirty or reading a sensual story, you can heighten the levels of arousal. On their own, words may have little meaning so in order to get the most out of what you want to say, talk the talk but get down and dirty with the actions. Instruct your lover on what you want him to do, either to you or to himself. Take turns playing follow the leader, sexual style, and watch his excitement build. If you’re engaging in some naughty storytelling, don’t be afraid to give yourself pleasure as the story unfolds. Self pleasure combined with guided imagery can spark more than a few fireworks.

One thing to keep in mind when you’re engaging in outer course is that if it turns you on, as long as you aren’t allowing your partner to penetrate you, as long as you are both feeling satisfied, anything goes. Outer course activities can draw out sexual play and intensify orgasms if combined with sex. However, on its own, outer course activities can take the pressure off couples to perform sexually and just explore one another and each other’s bodies in a safe way. Be warned though; outer course at its best can often lead you and your partner to engage in sex and unless you’ve both agreed to let outer course take you wherever it goes, you may want to set up some boundaries.

IT'S KISSING TIME!!
Don't miss any opportunity to learn to be a better kisser. Spend a lot of time practicing the art of kissing when you are turned on or whenever you feel horny. As a result of erotic massage, you may learn to caress your lover in an extremely erotic way. Grant yourself a whole night and announce your lover that you will not make love in an ordinary manner. Then get creative, use your imagination and be happy.

Go oral

Some couples find this disgusting while others find it so interesting and satisfying. Whichever way, if you feel comfortable going oral with your partner, then it’s one of the greatest ways of making love without penetrating.