OJB Jezreel needs fifteen million for kidney transplant

OJB Jezreel, who produced Tuface’s highly successful song, African Queen, is currently battling with a kidney-related ailment and is reported to be in need of N16 million for a kidney transplant. The social media have

Nigerian Student Fashion and Design Week goes annual

 

The Nigerian Student Fashion and Design Week (NSFDW) might have come and gone but anyone who was at the Indoor Sports Hall of the University of Lagos would bear testimony to the beauty, creativity and elegance that defined the event.
What kicked off with an empty runway and melodious tunes soon graduated into a potpourri of

Big Brother Africa: Uncertainty as Angola gets the boot

The performance of popular singer, EL at the BBA –The Chase Live eviction show was not enough to silence the drums of anxiety beating close to the heart of the housemates.
By the time, the curtains were drawn on EL’s sterling musical feat, it was a bad night for Angola and everyone could see why.

Desmond Elliot boasts over new movie - The Place

Giving a rare money-back-guarantee, actor Desmond Elliot has declared that he would refund people’s money if they found his new movie, ‘The Place’ wanting.
In a statement released from his office, he said: ‘I know this is not the kind of things people say in

Is Cossy still Nigeria’s most controversial actress?

This is not a piece put together to celebrate nudity or obscenity. Rather it is to state in emphatic terms that Cossy Orjiakor unarguably remains one of Nigeria’s most talked-about actresses and she is known for a whole lot of things.
Interestingly, from the long list of things she is known for, two have consistently taken centre stage

Why I don’t drink, smoke or womanise – Antar Laniyan

Tell us your background?
Antar Tunde Laniyan is a native of Osogbo in Osun State. I’m a 6-footer and I’m above 40. I’m married and I have two boys. I am an actor as well as a director and I write songs and sing as well, though many people do not know, because I have not exhibited that side of me.

I’m a victim of deceitful men – Salawa Abeni

Who is Salawa Abeni? 
A God-fearing, down-to-earth musician and a mother.
What is fashion and style to you?
It comes naturally
Favourite piece of clothing
I wear anything that suits me depending on the occasion
Favourite designer
Any good designer
What would you not be caught wearing any day?

Actors Guild of Nigeria and matters arising

Nearly every guild or professional association within the Nigerian entertainment industry has had one issue or the other especially in the area of leadership. There are camps, cliques, caucuses and the ‘opposition’ desiring power to further its own agenda. The Actors Guild of Nigeria (AGN) is not spared. Just over a year ago, the guild was embroiled in a series of scandals involving botched elections and accusations of rigging and violence. In the end, Ibinabo Fiberisima assumed her presidency as the first female leader of the AGN and in a few months, she has already started making some giant strides.
At a recently held event honouring Ms.Fiberisima, she spoke about her grand plans for the AGN and shared some of her achievements. Her administration already boasts of a Toyota 18-seater bus which would enable the free movement of National Executives of the AGN. Then there are the health insurance and pension scheme for fully registered members. In addition, the Screen Actors Award will be later launched to recognize the best of talents in the industry. Speaking to her colleagues, it is obvious Ms.Fiberisima has hit the ground running. She is fondly described as a ‘doer’, ‘go getter’ and a ‘mother’ who is totally committed to the welfare of actors. And to her credit, the organization now has a functional website where actors can sign up for screening (for a fee). Beyond her projects, Madam President lends her support to Nollywood and is a familiar face at movie premieres, award ceremonies and stakeholder engagement meetings. She has also been vocal about topical and salient issues in the industry. She embodies the active and visionary leader required to lift the guild into a sphere of significance in New Nollywood.
Being a woman and from a minority tribe as well as of mixed race are some of the differentiating traits Ms.Fiberisma possess but it her personal story of triumph that adds the cherry to the cake. The single mother who is also an ex-convict is like the proverbial phoenix who rose out of the ashes. She was jailed for manslaughter, following the death of a medical doctor, Suraj Giwa in an accident. Rather than let societal tags define her, she said her experience is what has made her who she is today. She spoke passionately of a foundation she will be launching for the families of accident victims. Her raison d’etre is “to get people to talk to them and to heal their wounds.”
There is no doubt that Madam President will definitely make her mark but to whom much who is given, a lot more is expected. I expect to see capacity building initiatives, competitions, training and better and timely dissemination of relevant information. It is the duty of her administration to raise the standards.
My personal advice is for her not to relent in her pursuit of excellence and put her words into quick action. Her success will largely depend on harnessing the disjointed voices of Nollywood actors and speaking as one voice to deliver on her mandate. We are watching but so far so good.

Big Brother Africa: End of romance for LK4 & Koketso

It was expected to be the second eviction show but what housemates and viewers got was an episode laden with a surprise of shocking proportions.
The first housemate to step off the ledge of survival was the Prince of Uganda, Lk4.

Terry G gets richer

Popular singer and producer, Amanyi Oche Gabriel a. k. a Terry G has sealed and signed a multimillion dollar contract with an undisclosed American based company to perform in its monthly event and promotions in the United States.
Terry G who becomes the third Nigerian artiste to ever benefit from this deal has been identified as an energetic performer and entertainer with millions of fans across Africa and the rest of the world.
The deal also comes with the sponsoring of every of Terry G’s major projects and tours all around Africa and the United States of America.
The American Company also is solidly behind the release of the Terry G’s most anticipated album Book of Ginjah which is to be launched on the July 5 at This Day Dome, Abuja, Nigeria. The concert which is set to feature a lot of Nigerian super stars like Kcee, Don Jazzy, Davido, Chuddy k, Vector, Dr Sid, Denrele, Akpororo, Gordons, Klint de drunk, DJ Jimmy Jatt and many more.

The good and bad sides of Karen Igho

One does not need a seer to realise three things about Nigerian On-Air-Personality and Big Brother Africa reality TV show winner, Karen Igho. First, she’s a celebrity. Secondly, she has a sizable population of Nigerians who love her unconditionally and would go any length to express their undying love for her.
Thirdly, however, she also has a steady team of critics; the kind that never sees any good in her utterances, actions, ideals and the brand she represents.
This would perhaps explain why we have decided to dig out and lay on the table, certain facts about this actress that many would find interesting.
• In 2011, she became $200, 000 (thirty million six hundred thousand Naira) richer after she won the Big Brother Africa (BBA) reality TV show. The show was temporarily christened Big Brother Amplified for that year.
• She is the third Nigerian in a row to win the BBA; after Kevin Pam and Uti Nwachukwu who also won $200, 000 each in 2009 and 2010 respectively.
• She once publicly disclosed that her highest level of dislike is reserved for snitches.
• On November 13, 2007, Karen Igho spent a whooping £5, 250 on her breasts at MYA (Make Yourself Amazing); a surgical cosmetic group in London where she had a breast implant that transformed her breasts.
• She hails from Delta State but life as she recalls today started in Jos. “I was born and bred in Jos. I am from a big family,” she said.
• She attended an all-girls Federal Government Secondary School in Jos and then attended Southwalk College in London where she studied Theatre Arts.
• As at 10:20pm on June 9, 2013, she had 70, 434 followers on Twitter.
• She was once a lingerie model
• Karen Igho is currently a presenter at Naija FM.
• She’s very passionate about charity works and projects.
• She has a total of 10 tattoos on different part of her body.

Soni and Betty Irabor

They are both journalists: Soni is a broadcaster while Betty a print journalist, author and publisher. The pair attends events together and always attracts media attention anywhere they appear. The marriage is blessed with two kids. Betty, in an interview with an online magazine, said they have been able to sustain the marriage by locking out people who don’t need to be part of it. “The truth about marriage is that there isn’t one that is perfect. We are talking about strangers meeting, courting each other and deciding to spend the rest of their lives together. There could be things that could create a strain in the early years of the marriage, but marriage in itself is a relationship where you continue to learn and so we must continue to feed our marriages with love, appreciate the other person and know that neither the wife nor the husband is a magician. So, don’t expect that your husband would know that right now you are not feeling happy. The only way he would know is by telling him; so stop over-expectation. People are full of expectations in marriage and that can create a lot of strain,’’ she explained.

Tony Elumelu and wife

This former head honcho of United Bank for Africa (UBA) is married to beautiful Awele, a medical doctor. The couple got married in 1993 and the marriage is blessed with five daughters. Elumelu was born in Jos, Nigeria, in 1963 and has two degrees in Economics from Bendel State University, now Ambrose Ali University, Ekpoma, Edo State, and another degree from the University of Lagos before capping it up with a Master of Science Degree. He is also an alumnus of Harvard Business School’s Advanced Management programme. Though the couple don’t appear in social circles frequently, they are usually the cynosure of all eyes at any event they attend as their exquisite dress style usually keeps the paparazzi swarming around them. Elumelu is chairman of Heirs Holdings, a pan-African proprietary investment company with interests in strategic sectors of Africa’s economy. 

Pastor Ituah and Ibidun Ighodalo

Pastor Ituah Ighodalo of the Trinity House is a lady’s man, and while he was single after his separation from his first wife, a lot of single ladies in his church had desired to make him theirs. However, former Miss Lux, Ibidun Ajayi, was lucky to catch his fancy. The two got married in 2007 and thereafter Pastor Ighodalo left the Redeemed Christian Church of God to establish the Trinity House, situated on Victoria Island, Lagos. The couple are usually together at any function they are invited and have always enjoyed much attention from the paparazzi. Like some other celebrity couples that have enjoyed the klieglight, the Ighodalos have had to battle with rumours of crack in their six years old marriage which the amiable pastor has firmly denied.

Dayo and Caroline Adeneye

Debonair and co-Chief Executive Officer of Prime Entertainment, Dayo Adeneye, is every lady’s dream. Having tried marriage before and it failed, he was not keen on jumping into another again until his father introduced him to Caroline.  The pair has been married for 18 years and the marriage is blessed with three kids. D1, as he prefers to be called, in an interview with a national newspaper, revealed that his father saw his need at the point and knew that Caroline suited him. He said patience, understanding, communication and tolerance have sustained the marriage so far.
On her part, Caroline summed up the success of their union this way: ‘’As a wife, my husband loves good food; so, I ensure that no one prepares it because he likes me doing it. Dayo is a typical African man because he enjoys our local dishes and doesn’t play with his stomach. So, I try my best in that area as well. He is cool, kind-hearted and strict. He’s a good father to our kids and a loving husband. He always wants the best for me. It is his cool nature and ever-listening ears that attracted me. He is quite homely and a good father.”
 Having lived in the United State of America for some time, his panache combined with his exquisite style of dressing has earned him several awards and still makes him one of the most stylish entertainment impresarios today.

Day a man knelt down on the the road for me

Tell us your full name
Obanla Anuoluwapo
 What’s your stage name?
Mercy Obanla
 How old are you?
I can’t disclose that
What’s you industry age? We know everyone has one
22
What’s your nationality?
Nigerian
Where is your place of birth?
Lagos
Tell us your state of origin
Lagos
 Where do you rep? For instance 2Face reps Festac in Lagos, Nigeria while Jay Z reps Brooklyn in the United States.
I rep Ikeja in Lagos.
 How tall are you?
I’m 5 feet 9 inches tall.
What’s your weigh?
55kg.
What’s your Twitter handle?
@mercyobanla
 What’s your name on Facebook?
Mercy Obanla
 What’s your profession?
Modelling and presenting.
What is your relationship status at the moment?
I’m in a serious relationship.
Which is your favourite movie?
So far, I have many of them.
Who are your favourite artistes?
Outside the country, that would be Ciara and in Nigeria, it’s 2Face.
Which meal tops your list of favourites?
I like any food with a lot of spice
What is your Astrological sign?
Pisces.
 What body part of yours attracts the most attention?
My boobs, I guess; and my waist.
Now, what would you like people to be attracted to?
The Mercy within… Not the outer Mercy.
 Who was the last person you spoke to on phone?
That would be my mum.
Can you swim?
Yes I can.
Sleep or sex? Which works better for you?
Sleep! I love to rest a lot.
Tell us a short and funny story
There was this time a female walked up to me and said she likes me and would love to know me better. She then asked me which state I was from, I told her I’m a Lagosian and she screamed and said: “So you are not a Nigerian…”
The person you would most like to meet is?
I would love to meet and work with Naomi Campbell.
Who would you consider your favourite models?
I would pick Oluchi, Naomi Campbell, Tyra Banks and Daniella Sarahyba.
 Can you cook? If yes, what’s your specialty?
Yes I can and I can cook all sorts of food.
What were you doing before this interview?
I was checking e-mails.
What is the most important issue in the world today and why?
I really can’t say the most important issue in the world because every country has got its own issues. Same applies to every individual in each country.
Do you own any adult videos?
No!
How old were you when you had your first kiss and paint us the picture?
I can’t tell you that.
When did you know you could be a model?
That happened when I was 9 years old.
What kind of mobile phone(s) do you use?
Blackberry, iPhone and Nokia
Can I buy you a drink and if so, what kind?
Yes you can. Cocktail will do.

Ever had a one-night stand?
No.
Have you ever done it with a virgin?
No.
 Have you ever watched an adult video on your phone?
No.
 Have you ever told a lie?
Yes!
Did you just lie about having or not having a one-night stand?
No!
If I ruled the world, I would…
I would be the best leader. That’s all I can say.
Doing what will get whoever does it on your wrong side?
Lying and cheating
 Do you like the lights on or lights off for sleep?
I can go with both, but I prefer the lights on
 Tell us something your parents don’t know about you.
I don’t hide anything from my mum and my dad is late.
 What is the most creative thing a guy/lady has said or done to approach you?
There was this guy who knelt down on the streets just for me to talk to him.
If someone asking you out does not have a lot of money, he/she better have…
A very loving heart, a great sense of humor, fear of God and a heart of a go getter and must be respectful.
Have you ever done a menial job?
Yes I have.
Would you want to live for a hundred years and why?
Yes I would love to. This would enable me spend more time with the one I love so much, my wonderful children, grand children and also maybe great grand children…
Do you have a pet or would you like to own one?
A dog.
What is the first thing you look out for in a man/woman?
The heart.
 How much were u paid on your first job? 2,500
Quickly run through some of the jobs you have been involved in
I have worked with amazing people. Nigeria Television Fashion Show, MTN Fashion Week and Night of Elegance. I’ve worked with Keilla’s Designs, Makeup Magazine, Da Viva in Accra, Ghana. I’ve worked with Barrett Apkogbayen (Best Photographer of the Year 2010). I have done high fashion modelling, glamour modelling, mature modelling, promotional modelling, run way modelling and catalogue modelling and many more.
How much do you charge for a job?
More than N500, 000 bit; it also all depends. Sometimes, it could be N100, 000 or even N50, 000 but that’s the lowest I can possibly go.
What’s the ‘Miss Freedom of the World’ all about?
It entails a lot but basically, its all about fighting for what is right and fair. Risking all for that which mattered and give to those who are in need… So now, I am representing Nigeria at the world wide contest and I hope all Nigerians will support me.
 How do you think you would be able to impact/help others if you win?
It has always been my number one goal to have platform to help others and I know the time is now.
Tell us a bit more about the Miss Freedom contest
About 40 countries are coming together in Republic of Kosovo to contest. That’s all I can say for now.
When and where is the pageant taking place?
The pageant is taking place in Kosovo in Europe and camping starts June 10 while the grand finale is on June 24.
Let’s quickly look at a list of first time things. Tell us about your first boyfriend/girlfriend
He is all in all… I can’t wish for another boyfriend because he is just my heaven sent.Briefly tell us about your first day in the university
It was great.
What was the first meal you cooked by yourself?
Noodles i guess.
When was your first crush and how did it happen and end?
I can’t remember that.
When was the first time you took UME?
2007.
Tell us about your first time learning to drive a car.
I am fast learner so it was good and interesting.
Tell us about your first business venture.
I went into buying and selling of fashion items.
Briefly tell us about your first kiss
That’s private and special to me… Can’t tell!
When was your first realisation of your talent?
That happened when I was 9 years old.
Tell us about your first nickname
Back then, my family used to call me Chicago because I watched basketball a lot when I was little.

I can date a marketer if... — Chelsea Eze

Who discovered you?
I will say Emem Isong. I had an auditioning with her before Silent Scandal in 2007 and thank God she kept that auditioning tape somewhere. In 2009 when Mrs. Vivian Ejike wanted to produce Silent Scandal, she put my name out, and I was called. So, I will say Emem Isong discovered me.
How has it been so far?
It’s not been easy I no go lie because you know how it is, if you did not struggle to get something, you will struggle to keep it. I never struggled to be an actor; I had to work hard to stay an actor. Silent Scandal was not just any movie, it was a great movie, and I tell people that Silent Scandal was a blessing and a curse at the same time. It was a blessing in the sense that O! My God, who is this girl? Where has she been? From nowhere to here, and it won three awards.
Three awards!
Yes! AMAA 2010 Most Promising Actress, there was also BON Revelation of the Year Award and ZAFAA Most Promising Award or something like that. It then became how is she going to keep it up? It’s not easy, and Silent Scandal being the kind of film that it is, did not create room for me to easily go to something else, maybe if I had started with few scenes it would have been easier. And the curse side; I won’t say curse in the real sense, just that it made me very aware, and I had to work extra hard because it was like I got this on a platter of gold, and I remember Emem appraising me for Silent Scandal, and that was even before I won the award. She had even wanted to give me a role but decided against it saying it’s not possible because I have just done Silent Scandal. And she said Chelsea, just stay on top of the game and work hard be where you are supposed to be at the right time, grow in your craft, talk to the right set of people, and just be a fantastic actor, and that has been exactly what I have been doing, but it is not happening overnight.
But why have you not been seen in most of Royal Arts Academy movies?
If there is a role that they thought I could act, they will call me.
Aside Emem Isong, how do you get scripts?
The scripts are coming in, I go for auditions contrary to what people think, but maybe I don’t go for all the auditions. Of course! I can’t go for all the auditions.
That means you are very selective of the auditions you attend?
Yes, I am very selective, there is a standard, and I’m sorry I didn’t set that standard, God did. So I cannot do something less.
You played a major role in the movie Hoodrush, how did you get to be a part of that movie?
I heard about Hoodrush from O.C. Ukeje, but unfortunately, they have already done the auditioning, but somehow, either OC Ukeje was it God that convinced them to call me, and I got the script.
What role did you play in the movie?
I played Shakira in the movie. Shakira is a girl that grew up in the hood. Though she wasn’t a hood rat, she needed to survive. She had to see life in a different perspective and went into a symbiotic relationship.
Before Hood rush have you in anyway sang before?
Yes, I used to sing in the school and choir church. But I know I love to sing, so I go to karaoke every now and then, and when the opportunity came I was glad because karaoke singing and studio singing are two different things. But anyway I’m actually thinking of going into music; there is no harm in trying.
Are you saying that your experience and performance in Hoodrush was so good that you want to go into music?
It wasn’t so good like Omawunmi, but honestly, I have done freestyle for a couple of people, people that I respect in the music industry, and a lot of them randomly spoke to me at karaoke. I think there is something, a lot of work and I’m doing another musical soon. It is a sing-song movie unlike Hoodrush where I did a couple of songs. In this, I will be singing more, like six to seven songs. So if I can put it up for movies, then I can be a singer.
Which other movies have you done recently?
I did Hoodrush after which I did an epic-modern movie called The Kingdom. It features Eucharia Anunobi, Clem Ohameze, Annie Macaulay among others. There is another one we shot in Abuja and then Two Brides and a Baby and a couple of other ones with working titles.
How are you coping in the movie industry with the economic meltdown considering that there is no back to back shooting as before?
The economic meltdown is everywhere in the world. Honestly, I feel the meltdown is a good thing as well as a bad thing. It’s a good thing in the sense that you will sit down and consider the script you want to spend money on very well, and you have cinemas to contend with; a lot of movies have gone to the cinemas and the movie also should have a standard. I think it puts everybody on their toes, people are not shooting so many movies and the ones that come out are great movies, so for me, it’s good.
As a beautiful and well talented actress who needs the cash to push her career to the fore, will you accept a N10million offer from a marketer who wishes to date you? Assuming you are the marketer, I will say to you, darling, (I call everybody darling, you know). I will tell him, thank you for acknowledging the fact that I’m good enough, but you know you are giving me N10million to shoot a movie where both of us will make money. I will never, that is sexual harassment.
But it is a common thing in the industry?
Yes, but if I have to date a marketer or a director I’m dating him because I like him, not on a condition.
Can you date a marketer?
If there is a fine one, yes, and if he is single and I’m single. Why not?
Are you in a relationship now?
Yes
And how supportive is he to your chosen career?
He is very supportive now, but you know Nigerian men.
Tell us more about yourself?
I’m from Abia State. I was born in Kano, and had my primary and secondary education also in Kano, but I went to the University of Maiduguri, Borno State where I read English Language.
When did you decide to go into pageantry?
It was something I dabbled into when I was still in school. I contested for Miss Taraba though I did not win, my best friend won while I came second, but I’m sure you can’t see the pictures. They are well hidden; I’m surprised how you got to know about it.
 What year was that?
2006
You should be able to speak Hausa Language very well.
I speak Hausa more than I speak Igbo. I speak Igbo, don’t get me wrong but my Hausa is more fluent.
What has kept you going in the industry?
If I say this, it will seem like a cliché; but it is God. God is the essence of ones being, and like my daddy used to tell me; though you have a plan for yourself, God has a plan for you too, and if you are not in God’s plan you will just be working and not getting results. Even when I get a script, I will kneel down and tell God to help me with the translation, so it is generally God, and secondly, I love myself so much that I take care of myself.
What’s your beauty routine like?
I don’t have one. I don’t rub powder, I stay away from make-up. I don’t make up because it will make me break up. The best I do is take fruits and water. I only use make up and powder when I need them. I don’t want to break up when you use too much powder your pores don’t absorb air, so I don’t use it except I’m going on set or I have an outing.

Marriage isn’t by force, I will marry if …Bimbo Akintola

 Let’s talk about the stage play Vagina Monologue; is it in series?

It’s actually the American version; it started from America and then we did the first one, and KIND. The non-governmental organisation in charge of the play felt we should have the Nigerian stories as well, instead of repeating the American ones. So a Nigerian script was made and that’s the one they have been repeating. The project is about female abuse.

Don’t you think people may misinterpret the concept of the play because of its title - Vagina Monologue?

It’s called Vagina Monologue because it has to do with women and that is the easiest way to differentiate between a man and a woman. Well, that is my own understanding of the whole thing; I did not ask anybody. I know that a lot of Nigerians are usually taken aback by the name.

The play concerns the ordinary woman on the street and students, but it is shown at cinemas and not in schools and other places where you can easily reach out to these categories of people; why?

I can only talk about the ones I have participated in. Though students were not part of them, I know KIND does a lot of things with kids and women and I think it would have got across to schools. You have to understand that Vagina Monologue is not the only play that deals with female abuse. There is a film I shot recently titled Heavens Hell. It’s all about female abuse also.

Why was your TV series Circe of Fate yanked off air?

I guess my sponsors were not able to continue with it because they had too many projects at hand and some had to go; and unfortunately, Circle of Fate was one of them.

Concerning the play, people may have the wrong perception on what you want to teach them about the life of single ladies.

Well, we wanted to use the drama to teach a lot of older women that it pays to be patient. Some of the older women in the country feel that once they hit a particular age and they are not married, then they should be desperate or unhappy about it. I don’t think that’s the right way. I think marriage should be about finding the right person you want to settle down with for the rest of your life, and not just the “next person I can manage so that people will know that I am married.”

Your colleagues always make reference to you when they talk of disciplined actors in Nollywood. How did your training as a thespian contribute to this attribute? 

Those days as a theater arts student of the University of Ibadan, if you were late, five marks will be deducted from your score and my lecturers did that a lot of times. I was taught by some of the greatest in the profession, like Professor Femi Osofisan, Professor Dabo Adelugba and Dr. Bamidele. 

When they say something you better listen and do as they say. I just carried that along into the industry because I am trained to be an actor and I don’t see why I should dump my training half-way.

You started your movie career with Violated, but did not finish the production. What happened?

I was supposed to play the lead role in Violated, but I had exams and so I ran away. The producer, Amaka Igwe, didn’t forgive me for a long time; but now we are friends. However, the first movie I did was Owo Blow.

After the success of the movie Bounds, which shot you into limelight, you have been inconsistent in movies. Why?

It is not like that. You don’t expect me to shoot five million films in a year and I have never believed in that. My ideal is at least four films in a year, but unfortunately our economy never agrees with four films in a year. If I have my way, I will do just a movie 

Have you ever experienced ‘black out’ while on stage?

No! God will never allow that to happen; but that’s what  makes you a proper actor and different from other people - you being able to carry on even when your lines disappear, you being able to keep the audience until you get it back or somebody throws the line at you.

Let’s look at one of your most memorable experiences on stage

I will call it challenging because that’s what it was for me and that is the play, Death and the Maiden. It was a story of a woman that was arrested, tied to a cot naked, blind-folded and raped continuously for months. That was my hardest role ever, and at the end of it I felt I have not done justice to the character. The director, Chuck Mike, told me that it was okay and fantastic. I didn’t feel that impact; I felt all they were saying was just to make me feel better and that was one experience that almost killed me.

You have not been doing much of Yoruba movies; why?

I have, because their stories are so good; their ideas are brilliant and they are now spending good money on production. You find out that there are specific producers and when you watch their jobs, you’re always impressed because you are happy with what they have done.  I love Yoruba films.

You played the role of an abused wife in the movie, Dangerous. Did you at any point feel ‘is this what I will go through when I get married?’

There are scenes you act in a movie and you may not have experienced it in real life; but a friend or someone you know may have experienced such a situation. Of course, you hear cases of women being beaten and those days in school, what we did was that when we heard such things, we would gather and beat the boy. I attended the University of Ibadan and if such things happened in the presence of girls, they will gather and give the boy a thorough beating. The problem is that there is such huge shame and women facing such a situations don’t usually want to open up; instead they say it’s their fault and somehow they will not want to open up to people.

Which of your stage productions are you particularly attached to? 

Igirigi was a school production, a variety package put together by the late Amah Briggs. She made it a memorable performance for me and she was a brilliant director, choreographer, teacher and actor. We lost her too soon.

The press has said a lot of things about you. Which of them really touched you?

The press has said a lot of negative things about me, but I don’t care, and I don’t read them either. A lot of things that have been written about me are false. That seems to be one of the things journalist here do. They form stories, maybe the same way some of my people create controversies. Some of the things that were written about me when I was not even in the country and I don’t really care because people who are close to me - my family and friends-know that I am an open book and I don’t hide anything and so they know. So, when you come up with anything and they say, “Bimbo! No, she can’t do that; I can tell you where she is now.”

At a time they said you were dating Kalu Ikeagwu

Oh! Kalu is my brother.

They said you were about to marry Dede Mabiaku.

Dede and I never planned to marry; but I did date Dede and it was in the public glare and I said so when I was interviewed. We dated for almost two years before we decided that we were better off as friends.

When is your TV drama coming back?

I know it is a nice one because there are still a lot of things we have not showed people. We were just trying to establish the characters when we stopped. We wanted the viewers to see how each character went in his or her desperation to get married, how they went in different directions and the things they did that were not worth it. Eventually, the character that stayed true to herself and decided to wait, finally got the best man. However, they all got married eventually.

Which movie are you passionate about or reflects something about you?

They don’t reflect anything about me, but they are my passion. One of them is The Mourning After, which talked about widowhood in the south eastern part of the country. Another is Freedom in Chains, a film we did for UNFPA, a branch of UN meant for campaign and we took it to a lot of states. 

Actors are always in the eye of the storm especially single ladies. 

What’s your opinion about some of the controversies in the media that trail your colleagues?

I don’t know because I don’t read some of those funny things; I skip them. Our lives are out there in the public. You walk from Allen to Opebi, it’s in the newspaper; everything we do is in the newspapers. We need privacy as well. So for me, I don’t like to delve into people’s privacy. I protect my private life with everything I have. In the past people knew who I was dating because it was Dede  Mabiaku, who is also a public person, and a musician.  There is no way you know who I am dating, and you  ask me and I will say I am not dating him. No! I don’t do that, but apart from that I protect my privacy with everything I have.

Can you remember any nasty experience like throwing pebbles at you inside the market by your fans because of the role you played in a film etc?

I love going to the market, but I can’t do that any anymore because you are harassed and everybody expects you to give him money and they rush you. I don’t go to the market anymore; I have people that go to the market for me.

What of your wears?

I buy my wears when I travel out of the country or I go to some specific boutiques. I don’t go to the market.

When is Bimbo settling down?

When I meet the right man. If I don’t, I won’t; it’s not by force. I haven’t met the person.

Are you thinking of diverting to music?

I stated off as a musician and I used to sing at the same club with late Jaiye Aboderin. We used to sing at a club called Divine and also in the university a long time ago.  I stopped because I had a bad experience on stage.  Somebody upset me before I went on stage and I sang off key from the beginning to the end. I could hear myself, but I could not do anything and my elder sister was just in front clapping and cheering me up.

You’re a tomboy; can you remember any of those pranks you played?

I used to beat boys those days after school. I used to fight and I was very aggressive. I remember the April Fool we did to my dad and he didn’t find it funny. When I was younger, if they say Bimbo is sick, it’s serious. I was always in the hospital and my ailment used to be crazy and we played that trick on my father and he did not find it funny.            

Me a lesbian? They are ignorant –Kween

You have been on and off the scene, what really were you up to lately?
I have been off the scene for quite some time now for personal reasons, but since coming back to the scene, I have been promoting my new single.
Jebele tells a lot of story, what really inspired it?
The song Jebele was inspired by the reality and challenges we face in life, especially in our relationships.
How much has the song affected where you were, and where you are going in your career?
Jebele has been my strongest single since the release of Oluronbi and Come with me. So I think that is a positive thing. People love and can relate to the song. As for the future, I can only hope for the best.
Can you tell me how much you spent on that video and who directed it?
 It is an expensive video; let my bank manager worry about the figures. Blast and Lummie of Onpoint Africa were the directors of the video.
Are you looking at any label now or getting offers? What is the attraction, and what are the chances of you and Ara getting along?
I am in talks with a management company. I get along with people easily.
What is your take on the several musical video awards coming up, and what do you think this means to Nigerian music?
It’s a great and positive thing for the music industry. It is a great initiative. I hope it will be done well and that it has come to stay. A lot goes on behind the scene to get a good video done; we have the directors, producers, artistes, stylist and the makeup artists who work so hard to get videos done, so recognizing and appreciating them is very encouraging, and it gives a great feeling of accomplishment.
Can you define your kind of music, and where do you think it will be in a decade?
Afro funk, jazz, hip hop, neo soul, lovers rock and dance hall rhythms are combined in my music. I have been linked for my growls and swoops that link African tradition to American soul music. I produce dance music as well as slow captivating dance songs with a lot of sensuality. I hope that in a decade, my music would have had a global recognition, and winning a Grammy would be the icing on the cake.
Between beats and lyrics, which do you give top priority or consider most when you are composing?
I consider neither when composing. My composition comes to me naturally.
 Why do you think anybody would call or tag you a lesbian?
People can call or tag me a lesbian because they are ignorant.
How do you cope as a single mother and an artiste?
Coping as a single mother as well as an artiste has been extremely challenging, but I have been able to pull through. I couldn’t have done it without the strength and blessing from God, and by having a wonderful, loving and supportive family.
Have you ever been rebuked or discriminated against because you are romantically linked with a self-confessed lesbian?
A major point of correction, I am not romantically linked with the person in question. We are sisterly, friendly and colleague-linked. I have not been discriminated against to my face; maybe people do it behind my back, but really who cares. Are people going to say Don Jazzy and D’banj are romantically linked because they are like brothers, friends and colleagues?  
No doubt Kween is a much sought after musician, besides her obvious talent, one other thing that she has going for her is her dress sense.
I don’t wear wigs. I fix my hair. I just want to be different from others that is why I go for this hair. It is my signature tune. I will definitely change this style in the near future, but not now.

I’m a living example of child abuse – Atawewe

Alhaji Sulaimon Adio Atawewe (Akile 1) is now adding reasons to why Nigerians and the world at large need to listen to Fuji Music. The Fuji dance-hall master is changing the face of Fuji music as he is using the channel to preach against child abuse, and the reason why our governments, corporate organizations, philanthropists and individuals need to support the eradication of child abuse in the country.
In this chat, he revealed that he has been talking to some notable people and corporate bodies who can assist him to achieve this. He promised to disclose the agenda as event unfolds.
Atawewe was born in the Mushin area of Lagos State. At the age of three, he was taken to Ikorodu to stay with his grandmother where it was believed he will be properly taken care of; instead, he started his musical career there. Before then he said, “I am a typical example of child abuse; I hawked, and at the same time pushed Omo lanke”. He said further “I did not blame my parents for this because they want the best for me, but there was no finance. My father was just a drummer boy while my mother was a petty trader, so my growing up was terrible. My father was not in support of my music because of the difficulties in it. In 1996 when I was arrested by federal SARS because I was accused of entertaining armed robbers at my shows, I spent seven months in detention, I can remember vividly during one of my father’s visit, he told me ‘you see what I was telling you’.
That same day, my mother came. On her way, she fell and I saw blood stain all over her body, then she said ‘Sulaimon have gone to check, they said music is not your way that you should be selling keys’. Instead accepting that, I just touched the blood and use it to pray for myself saying that “if truly you gave birth to me, and you went through this for my sake, I will excel in the music industry”.
Though I wanted to quit during that period because of what I went through, but the day I was released and saw the general acceptance again, I felt overwhelmed, and I decided in my mind that it is a do or die affair.
Now, I give thanks to God because my life is full of His grace, and as such I think it is high time I gave back to the society on child abuse as contained in my new album titled Packaging.
I am working tirelessly with my team (Team Akile) to make sure that we float an NGO that will be recognized worldwide on Child Abuse as soon as possible.

How Tonto Dikeh flopped in London concert

We may not assume or say that she was drunk when she came on stage to perform at the Kurukere concert in London recently, but she definitely behaved odd.
According to feelers from the venue of the concert, Tonto Dike didn’t do much on stage as she kept screaming and staggering, telling the crowd how big she is, the whole time she was meant to perform.
Her song was playing for her to perform but she kept telling the crowd that she can’t wave because she did not shave her armpit.
Then she did the craziest thing by putting her hand in her armpit and began telling a story of how she was showed love in America….blah blah blah, while doing all this, she was staggering… and the next minute she found herself on the fall – oops!
The MC had to escort her off stage when the crowd booed her.

Woman confronts LASTMA officials, collects N40,000 ransom for damaged wares

A woman, Ufoma Ezekudero, confronted a team of LASTMA officials who allegedly crushed her consignment of ‘turkey’ in an attempt to arrest a motorist and got a whopping N40,000 ransom for the damages.  It was a do-or-die affair as Ufoma stood right in front of the LASTMA’s vehicle, defying the torrential rain in the heat of the confrontation. She defiantly refused to move demanding for the payment of her wares destroyed by the LASTMA officials. Her dogged determination paid off. How did it happen?

According to her, it all started when the bus taking her and other commuters from Ikotun towards Cele Express bus stop was stopped by a team of LASTMA officials at the tail end of Cele/Egbe bridge, opposite Egbe Hotel. “When the LASTMA officials stopped our bus before getting on the Cele/Egbe bridge, we didn’t know what happened because the driver had not committed any offence. We told the driver not to answer them but he didn’t listen and stopped. 

“Immediately he stopped, one of them entered our bus and wanted to drive the bus away. We shouted and asked them to leave the bus because the driver had not done anything wrong but they refused and before we realised what was happening, it has degenerated into a fight and everybody in the bus quickly rushed down.

“While this was going on, the driver of the LASTMA van came and offloaded all my goods on the ground and one of them quickly entered the bus to drive off but because of the commotion could not do so. Meanwhile, the driver of the LASTMA van that offloaded my goods to the ground wanted to drive out and by doing so, drove on my four cartons of frozen turkey and other things.

“And for me, the goods are my livelihood. My husband’s three shops at Oshodi had already fallen to the bulldozers of Governor Raji Fashola and I am now the bread winner of my family. My husband now goes about collecting irons to sell and it is this business that we are surviving on.

“If it will lead to death, I am ready to die here today. Where will I see money to recoup my loss if they don’t pay me? And look at that black one over there; just last week here, he arrested the Keke Napep that I chartered at 6am in Ikotun. He said the Keke Napep is already over the line before it stopped.  I begged him and at the end of the day had to part with N4,700 to bail the Keke Napep from them. But today, they must pay me for this damaged turkey. Who will buy the turkey from me if I don’t collect my N40,000 naira?

By the time got there, the incident, had caused a massive gridlock and had also attracted a large number of onlookers who were on the verge of attacking the LASTMA officials on general principles. However, it was the timely arrival and intervention of a mobile policeman who shot into the air to calm the tension and helped the LASTMA take possession of the Danfo bus which battery had hitherto been removed by the driver, at the insistence of the horde of onlookers and sympathisers that saved the situation.

According to one Saliu, an eye witness, the blame lies solely on the LASTMA operators. “We saw it clearly from here”, he says. “The LASTMA initially stopped an LT bus but had to let it go because a policeman was inside the bus. Immediately the LT bus left, they asked the danfo driver to stop and after a brief exchange between the driver and the LASTMA, we just saw the LASTMA trying to take over the bus.” 

Another eye witness who simply identified himself as Udi claimed that he approached the LASTMA to take things easy when the incident started but they refused and instead, messed everything up.”There’s no doubt about it, they caused the whole incident with their attitude. They wanted to forcefully take the Danfo bus to their office and the people in the bus reacted to this negatively and this was the beginning of the trouble

“As you can see now, this woman is ready to die here and the traffic gridlock that it has caused is another thing entirely,” he added.

The driver of the bus however gave his own version of the story and corroborated the story of Mrs Ufoma Ezekudero and the several protesting onlookers. “I did nothing wrong”, he claims. I only stopped because I know them.

However, in their claim, the highest ranking LASTMA official at the scene of the incident who spoke to Daily Newswatch under anonymity claimed that he was not on ground when the situation started. “I am yet to know what actually happened, but when I got here, I met the conductor threatening the officials with a wheel spanner and I went to him and told him that wielding a weapon will not help his case,” he claimed.  

But the woman whose goods were damaged insisted on not allowing the LASTMA van move an inch by staying directly in front of the vehicle until they paid her the sum of  N40,000 which is the retail value of the destroyed goods and in a bid to calm the rising anger among the teeming onlookers who were in sympathy with the woman and were  ready to lynch the LASTMA officials,  the highest ranking official decided to pay her according to her wishes and the demands of the onlookers who were behind her.

He placed a call to his head office at Ejigbo and demanded that the sum of  N40,000 be brought to him at the scene of the incident immediately. He also asked for the release of the impounded danfo bus as the onlookers demanded for this as a criterion to allow the LASTMA van to depart the scene.

Some minutes later, a detachment of LASTMA officials arrived and brought the money. Their failure to bring the danfo bus irked the onlookers and they insisted that the LASTMA official will not move out of the scene until the impounded bus is released

It however took the intervention of some people and with the highest ranking official desperate pleas to release the bus immediately he gets back to the office before the irate onlookers allowed the LASTMA officials to depart the scene

However, by the time Daily Newswatch got to the office of the LASTMA at Ejigbo, the story had changed. They insisted the driver must, in the first place, before they can discuss anything, refund the N40,000 they paid to the woman.

The officer who spoke to Daily Newswatch earlier said, “before I can say anything concerning this case, the danfo driver must pay the N40,000. It was because of him that this thing happened so he must bear the responsibility.”

Daily Newswatch however reminded him of his promise earlier at the scene of the incident but he refused to be drawn into that. He further explained that his superior was angry with him for paying the woman for the damaged goods. “When I told my boss that we paid the woman, he was very angry with me.”

Updating Daily Newswatch in a telephone chat on Saturday evening, the driver said that the LASTMA officials insisted that he must first of all pay the money before the bus can be released. “They said that I must pay the N40,000 before I can get my bus back. I even begged them to release the damaged turkey so that I can look for someone who will buy it and use it to recoup the money back but they refused,” he said.

However, on Monday, things changed, as the LASTMA officials ticketed the driver the exact sum of the money paid to the woman as an alibi in case their action of paying the woman backfires since Daily Newswatch covered the incident. According to the driver, who spoke to Daily Newswatch on Tuesday morning, “I gave them N20,000 but they refused. They instead ticketed me. They asked me to go and pay N40,000 to a Lagos State account before they will now decide what to do with my bus.”

The driver as at the time of going to press however claimed he had paid a total sum of N45,000 and his vehicle is yet to be released to him. Indications are however strong that the driver is been treated in such a manner because of the involvement of the press.

“I have paid around N45,000  and they say they will not release the bus to me because the press are involved since they don’t know what might come out of his report. One of them even claim now that he lost his handset and camera and they say I must pay for it,” he claimed. 

Two of the LASTMA officials who were responsible for the incident were identified simply as Lawan and SM.

Bollywood actress, Jiah Khan commits suicide after heartbreak

Young Bollywood actress, Jiah Khan has allegedly committed suicide by hanging herself with police claiming she was heartbroken after a failed relationship with the son of an actor, which possibly drove her to take her life. The body of Jiah, 25, was found hanging at her ‘Sagar Sangeet’ residence in Juhu where she lived with her mother and sister who were not present when she ended her life. Preliminary investigation has revealed that she was in a relationship with Suraj, son of actor parents, Aditya Pancholi and Zarina Wahab for nearly a year. Jiah was said to be under depression after coming to know of Suraj’s new love interest, who supplied jewellery to the Pancholis.

Again, Foluke Daramola’ marriage shakes

Busty actress, Foluke Daramola’s marriage with Kayode Salako, otherwise known as Fasholamania is again being threatened as the man has resumed contact with his ex -wife, Bukola. Celebrity Take out was informed that the man is gradually warming himself back to the woman she abandoned for the Osun State born actress which, we gathered, didn’t  go down well with her. Earlier, the relationship between Kayode and Foluke have been the talk of the town.

Mo Abudu brings Steve Forbes to Nigeria

Moments with Mo star, Mo Abudu, is making the launching of her EbonyLife TV a grand one as she has plans to bring founder and chairman of Forbes, Steve Forbes to Nigeria. Steve Forbes is expected to attend the grand launch slated for June 30 in Lagos. Already, all hands are said to be on deck as the Ebony Life makes its debut just as Studio 53 extra co-host, Dolapo Oni and Pamela Ofoegbu have also jumped on the bandwagon.

Former publisher writes Dangote’s biography

Chicago based Nigerian journalist and former publisher of Razor, Moshood Fayemiwo, has completed a book on the life of Nigerian billionaire, Aliko Dangote. The book titled `Aliko Muhammad Dangote; The Biography of the Richest Black Person In THE World` will be launched soon. The preview of the book was released abroad penultimate week, with a view to spreading it in both the European and African markets. A graduate of the University of Lagos, Fayemiwo was the publisher of Razor before relocating to America on self exile during the Abacha regime.

At home with Wale Thompson

After a long wait, you finally came out with another album, `No Rival`, why the long wait and how is it doing in the market?

The album is doing well. Infact, we are out of sales now as we have sold everything we have in stock. The work is hot and is in hot demand. The video is also enjoying good review on airwaves both on the cable stations as well as terrestrial stations. The response has been awesome, that is the reason it took me a long time to come out with this work. I actually took my time because I don’t want to come out with an album that my fans won`t be able to associate with.

With your pedigree in juju music, what`s your opinion on insinuations that juju music is gradually going into extinction? 

Juju music will never die. I will never accept that. This brand of music has gone far in Nigeria`s music scene. Our veterans such as King Sunny Ade, Ebenezer Obey, Sir Shina Peters have really tried with the juju brand to get established. We have taken it to the level where other genres of music are borrowing one or two things from us to supplement their own music; they borrow our kind of lyrics, rhymes and instruments to make up with theirs. We are the pathfinders, it can never die, and it has come to stay. It has become part of our culture in Nigeria, especially among the Yorubas. It is still the only music that is being listened to at wedding, naming, house warming and even funeral ceremonies. We are the father of all genres of music in Nigeria.

Your hit song, Lalale Friday was a great hit; is `No Rival` going to surpass it?

 To be honest with you, that is left for God to decide because you cannot predict how far a song or album can go, you can only show your talent and your hardwork while God determines its success or otherwise. When Michael Jackson came out with Thriller, it was awesome but after that, he never recorded such similar success again till he died. 

However, I want to tell you that this album will go places because I took my time, burnt lots of energy to make it a good album.

Abuja businesswoman, Princess Abiodun Omotade, steps up

Highly connected  Abuja based business woman, Princess Abiodun Folashade Omotade has acquired a factory in Ogun State at an undisclosed, but mouth- watering amount of money said to run into several millions of Naira. As gathered by Celebrity Take Out, she sealed the deal recently with the management of the company, originally owned by an Italian. The company according to sources is into cement packaging and refuse disposal bags. It was gathered that the turn-around of the outfit will commence soon with experts being expected from Asia. 

Princess Omotade, who will be 50 years old in July also has her hands in oil and gas, banking as well as manufacturing. Married to the late Deji Omotade, (ex-permanent secretary in the Federal Ministry of Industries), she is a regular face at Aso Rock Presidential Villa and hails from Abeokuta, Ogun State.

John Dumelo, Adjetey Annang, others storm Lagos for Letters to my mother

Sexy Ghanaian actress, Kafui Danku’s movie, LETTERS TO MY MOTHER,  which has started generating international award nominations, including Best Pan African Actor - John Dumelo (Nigeria Entertainment Awards 2013) will be premiered in Nigeria come June 14 at Silverbird Cinemas, Lagos. Ghanaian actor, John Dumelo delivers yet-another dramatic performance in the movie. The Ghollywood star plays a delusional character, Mike, searching for the truth about his life, his mother’s love and more. Directed by Pascal Amanfo, the intriguing flick features performances by Kafui Danku, Adjetey Annan, Roselyn Ngissah and Paulina Oduro.

Ex-D’Banj’s boss, JJC escapes death in Lagos car crash

Former group leader of D’Banj, JJC of the JJC & 419 Squad, recently survived a car crash in Lagos. The singer turned music video director was reportedly involved in a car accident around Ogba area of Lagos State. According to information gathered by Celebrity Take Out, it was hinted that a heavy vehicle, allegedly with a failed brake system reportedly hit JJC’s Nissan Altima car by the side. The back door of the car was said to have been badly damaged in the process but the singer was unhurt.

Things you need to know about boyfriends

There are some certain things you need to know about your boyfriend’s attitude towards you and your relationship. To keep your bond strong, you have to get wise to these totally-guy love behaviors. Take a peek into the male mind so you can comprehend him.

You love the guy and feel like you pretty much know him and all of his quirks, and yet inevitably, your boyfriend does things during the course of the relationship that make you go “Huh?” That’s because there are guy-unique love habits you’re not privy to. Men in relationships have a different code of behavior than women do. And they’re not conscious of these innate traits, so it’s not like they could tell you what makes them tick even if they wanted to. But forget trying to change your guy. It’s not going to happen.

The more serious a relationship gets, the less a man will reassure you. 

When you and your sweetie were in the early stages of romance, he might have randomly shown up at your door with flowers or called to check in while he was out with the boys. Nowadays, you have to nudge him to pick up something for your birthday. What gives? Well for one, back then, Mr. Smooth was trying to woo you. “During courtship, a man will pull out all the stops to win you over. At the same time, he’ll gauge your reactions to these overtures for affirmation that the feelings are mutual. Once he’s certain you’re smitten, he doesn’t need to conduct these little love tests anymore. When a man is confident his relationship is solid, he enters a comfort zone. He’ll stop doing those extras because he doesn’t need them and assumes you don’t either. Unfortunately, this leaves you feeling insecure. Relax. You can get the reassurance you need if you learn to look for it in other ways. Men are more likely to rely on simple day-to-day actions rather than sweeping romantic gestures to say ‘I love you,’.  But if you’re not looking for these subtle signs, they’re easy to miss. Guys always want to have sex with you…even in the midst of a fight.  The reason guys are always up for action — even if you’re not on speaking terms — is because sex and relationship satisfaction are not the same thing for them. Most men are masters at compartmentalizing their feelings. For women, emotions run on a continuum. 

Men love the little things you do. They just won’t ever admit it. 

You love it when your guy goes out of his way for you. Here’s the flip side: He feels equally adored — and appreciative — when you go the extra mile for him. He just won’t ever let on. It’s not that he doesn’t take note of what you do for him; he does but gushing doesn’t come naturally to men. Think about it: A guy would never say to one of his boys: “guy, it was really thoughtful of you to buy me a beer last night.” Guys probably think it’s a given that they are grateful. Their men logic: “Who doesn’t enjoy having nice things done for them?” So stop waiting for a reaction, let alone a thank-you, and keep doing those little things that make you both feel so good.

He may act like a tough guy, but he secretly wants to be babied. 

Babe loves that her boyfriend is a real guys’ guy. “He has this sexy Russell Crowe thing going on — a kind of don’t-mess-with-me masculinity that I’m totally attracted to. So imagine your surprise when you witnessed him taken down by...the common cold. The truth is, the fact that your man can lift heavy objects doesn’t erase the fact that he still wants to be fussed over on occasion. All guys are basically kids at heart, deep down, they want to be taken care of, and who can blame them? On some level, don’t we all? Choose little gestures that pamper him but don’t compromise yourself.

He won’t warn you if the relationship is on the rocks.

Guys don’t spend a ton of man-hours pondering the state of your union or analyzing its ups and downs. Men tend to let the little things that irritate them build and build and build without saying a word, because they don’t want to deal with the whole relationship drama. Then suddenly, their frustrations snowball and they go into crisis mode, ready to end things. As a result, it’s truly the woman’s responsibility to take the pulse of the relationship. That doesn’t mean neurotically cornering your guy for a sit-down chat every time you get the slightest twinge things may be heading south. But if you sense your man’s acting really removed, check in. we suggest saying something like “Sweetie, I love spending time with you, but lately, you seem preoccupied. What would make you happier?” If you keep things light and upbeat, he’s more likely to be receptive. If you’re still stumped weeks later, have the full-on powwow. Wait until you’re somewhere where eye contact can be kept to a minimum so he feels less threatened. (Think walking side by side instead of sitting across from each other at dinner.) Then ask him straight-out where you stand. You deserve answers, after all.

“I Wish I Hadn’t Heard That”

When he should’ve zipped his lips he says things that make you think otherwise of him and your relationship. Things like:

“I never would have known that my new boyfriend had hair plugs if he hadn’t come clean. Now I’m too freaked out to even go near his head.” —shares Maureen

“After meeting my mom, the guy I was seeing commented on her weight and actually suggested that I better watch myself. I wanted to hurt him!” —Ada, 24

“Before proposing to me, my ex-fiancé let slip that the diamond ring wasn’t entirely paid for and it was a real stretch for him financially. How romantic!” —Lara 19

Tips for surviving a public restroom visit

T

o many, the public toilet is the most irritating place ever but when we become so pressed and when nature calls, we have no other choice left than to run into one for succour.

 As bad as a public toilet seems, it still give you the relieve you desperately need at that moment but as we all know, public toilets are full of germs and bacteria so we have to take full precaution. 

Here are useful tips to remember the next time you visit a public restroom. These tips will at least give you a 99% protection from germs and diseases.

Always Check for Toilet Paper

This is a “look before you leap” tip that sounds obvious, yet has been overlooked by many. One of the worst situations anyone can imagine when dealing with a public toilet is being stuck without a handy roll of toilet paper. Most times, you would have finished before checking for toilet paper to clean up so its better you always keep tissue paper handy all the time. 

Use the Toilet Seat Covers

Those public toilet seats are full of germs and harmful bacteria that might have been left by previous occupants. If you want to add a little extra security, you can use multiple seat covers to protect yourself, try covering the seat with multiple toilet paper for protection before sitting. 

Lower the lid before flushing the toilet-

Did you know that particles of toilet water can reach everything in range to 20 ft? That is amazing but it also means that your purse, clothes, shoes, and yes even you can get sprayed by the dirty water. It’s always best to lower the lid first. Lower the seat lid before flushing: No lid? “Flush and run for your life ! 

Avoid Flushing with Your bear Hands

This may sound funny but if you cant cover the flusher handle with tissue before flushing, then its better you flush with your foot instead of your hand. There’s no telling what type of bodily projectiles landed on or near that toilet handle and you cant imagine the amount of germs that hang on those harmless looking flushing handles of button. 

Drop a Layer of Toilet Paper in the Toilet Before Use

There is nothing like a cold splash on your exposed buttock as you sit or hover in terror over a public toilet. Don’t even begin to imagine what horrors you can possibly catch from what is thought of as the filthiest part of the restroom. If the thought of public toilet water splashing your backside keeps you up at nights, fear not - the simple solution is to create a mini landing pad in the form of a layer of toilet paper. Leaving a couple strands of toilet paper in the public toilet before use will help soften the landing when you do your business, and minimize or completely prevent excess splash. Just make sure you don’t go overboard and clog the toilet. ( that’s an important reason why you have to have your tissue handy)

Good reason your tissue paper is very important 

Tissue can be used when handling the public restroom sink to avoid possible germs. Using a paper towel on the door handle is also a good idea since it’s the most frequently touched item in a public restroom and has the potential for carrying harmful bacteria, especially from people who fail to wash their hands properly.

Wash Your Hands Thoroughly

The best way to fight bacteria and avoid catching some type of sickness or disease is to thoroughly wash your hands. Make sure to use as much soap as possible and hot water if it’s available. Scrub well and make sure you cover both sides of your hands and all the way up to your wrists. A proper washing of the hands should take 30 seconds, but to be safe, you should repeat the process a second time for another 30 seconds. Remember it’s a public toilet.